Thanks for your question! You didn’t say whether or not you are saved. If you are, you probably already know it’s not wise to ‘go with’ or date someone who doesn’t share your faith. That can really complicate things down the road. If the person who is saved is pressuring you for sex, he may not be mature in his faith. A person who is not mature in his faith regarding sexual matters may also not be mature in his faith in other areas as well. If you are saved, you are probably aware already that the Word is clear about believers not being unequally yoked (in marriage) with unbelievers. Consider this, a mature believer and a babe in the faith may also be an unequal yoking. It would not be wise to waste your time ‘going with’ or dating someone who does not share your faith commitment and values. I know you didn’t specifically ask about marriage but ‘going with’ or dating someone is the path that leads to falling in love and then to marriage. Once you’re in love, your critical thinking skills can be altered. Life is short, if it doesn’t fit, don’t force it! The bottom line is, if you are commited to your faith and want to save yourself for marriage, maybe neither one of your current choices is the best fit for you. I applaud a woman who knows what she wants and doesn’t settle for less. U GROW GIRL!